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Sailing solo

19/1/2014

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Living on my own has brought up all sorts of deep fears. Can I navigate this life on my own?  Do I trust myself to make the right choices?  Being able to see all sides of a situation makes it very challenging for me.   Which one to choose?  Which is the 'right' way, for me?  Or put another way, what do I want?  The received wisdom is any choice is good, better than none, but my fears tell me otherwise.

If I get it 'wrong', I'm terrified of how far I could fall - into oblivion.     I've had a few shocking experiences in my life that have affected my wiring - real horror does happen (early death of mother, suicides of father and best friend).   Calming down my alarm system is a daily practice for me, taking the charge out of old patterns.   

Is life better as a couple?  Only if you take turns at being the helm & crew.  I was helm on some key decisions in our life - eg which town to live in to bring up our children.  But for most of the time I was crew, often because I couldn't make a decision, and he took charge.    But then I was not happy with his choices.  I felt I was railroaded into it,  victimy and underpowered.   Horrible for everyone.    

Hence my interest in energy work.  Where was my inner compass to navigate my world?  Only I know what my world looks and feels like and it's up to me to chart it with love and precision.  This means getting to know how I inhabit my body, how is it supporting me, how do I keep my mind clear, how do I nourish my spirit (through creativity and relationships)  ... so I can live a vibrant life, be good company, contribute in a satisfying and meaningful way, and feel the joy of being alive.    

I trust I will find a partner to share this next chapter, and in the meantime, I'm enjoying the autonomy of my time: learning what I do want, desire, and how to be.  

If this sounds appealing to you, contact me at willaking@gmail.com for a complimentary session.
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    In the third chapter of my life, I'm at an open door.  All the research and play I've done till now is bearing fruit.  I'd love to share it with you.  I'm finding that doing the essential inner work, alongside the outer work, is an adventure that's much more fun in company. 

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